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How To Gay Sex

QUESTION As an underpaid psychoanalyst, I thought you might be able to help us.  After a month’s breakup last year due to infidelity on my part over a need to get some butt, my lover and I decided to give it another go.  I told him I’d agree to a monogamous relationship if he’d learn to, er, uhm, take it ...

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The Average Amount Of Semen A Man Ejaculates

QUESTION: I read in a reputable magazine that guys shoot an average of three tablespoons of cum.  Come on!  I shoot more than most and I don’t get anywhere near that.  What’s the average-sized load? –  Confused Dear Confused: You’re right; they’re wrong.  The average volume of semen spurting out of us is between half a teaspoon to a ...

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How Many Calories Does Sex Burn?

How many calories do you burn when you make love?  I’m thinking if it’s high enough, wouldn’t promiscuity be a better way of getting fit than going to the gym?  Besides, I’d love to be able to say, “I’m not a whore; I’m an athlete....

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Is It “Us” Against “Them” Between Positive And Negative HIV Gay Men?

QUESTION I just moved here and can’t believe how juvenile guys are about HIV. I’m quite up-front about my status and I choose to let it come out in the natural course of getting to know a guy. Granted, after living through the crisis since the beginning (nearly 19 years now) I have seen a lot, and I find ...

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How To Get Your Boyfriend To Bottom

QUESTION: As an underpaid psychoanalyst, I thought you might be able to help us. After a month’s breakup last year due to infidelity on my part over a need to get some butt, my lover and I decided to give it another go. I told him I’d agree to a monogamous relationship if he’d learn to, er, uhm, take it...

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Vanilla BDSM

QUESTION: My partner and I are trying to add a little spice to our serviceable but rather bland sex life.  Any suggestions?  Just keep in mind that we consider salt and pepper spices, so don’t be giving us hair-straightening Tabasco sauce suggestions! –  Vanilla aching for ...

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Gay Anal Sex And Why You Shouldn’t Use Drugs

QUESTION: I certainly appreciate what you said about gay anal sex and pain and cocaine a few columns back, butt for me it’s pot and the better the pot the bigger the dick I like up my ass. And this is from a top… Without the “lubrication” from  marijuana I become one of those bottoms who ...

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Fifteen Pictures Of Michael Phelps’ Feet

Got a Michael Phelps foot fetish? We scoured the internet and found 15 of the best pictures of Michael Phelps’ feet. Enjoy. Just click on the pics and they will expand. If you want to see more celebrity feet, click here: The ten best celebrity feet (Male) The ten worst celebrity feet (male) The

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Settling For Nothing Less Than the Best

I remember when I was a kid, the Old Man used to always say, “son, if you settle for anything less than the best, you’re selling yourself short”. I’m fairly certain my Dad wasn’t referring to the guys I would hookup with, but I use that philosophy towards everything in life. You should too. I’m not here to mentor you on anything other ...

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How to Get What You Want on a First Date

Before going out on a first date, set a goal (or two). What do you want to accomplish on the date? Better yet, what do you want from HIM on the date? Do you want to get a blowjob, handjob, kiss, hug, or all of the above? After deciding what your goal is, plan accordingly. Keep the conversation topic and tone according to what your goal is. ...

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Gay Online Dating: Why You’ll Never Get a Date

Befuddled as to why you’re having no luck at online dating? You’re not the only one. Most gay men sign-up for online dating sites with hopes of attracting a hottie, but end up with nothing. The reason they aren’t meeting anyone is because they don’t understand the art of ...

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Is It Wrong to Be Openly Gay in Public?

There’s nothing I hate more than people who hate people because of their lifestyle choices. I was raised to believe that we should all be free to do as we please as long as we aren’t harming others. Society has...

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Anti-Gays: Why They Hide Behind the Bible

I don’t hate. Not even those that hate me because of my sexual orientation. I’m also not a religious man, so I can’t recite lines from the Bible off the top of my head. What I can do is tell you why anti-gays use the Bible as their reasoning for hating gays, which I will share below. But first, it’s best to understand...

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What Makes a Community “Gay Friendly”?

Perhaps you live in a place where you’re not comfortable being gay. That’s actually very common. Despite being in the 21st century, there still are certain places where gays aren’t welcomed by much of the population (*cough*Southern states*cough*). So what makes a community “gay friendly”? Any place where gays feel...

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Pros and Cons of Places to Meet Gay Men: Gay Bar Versus Online Dating Sites

Ready to get out there and find a man? First, you need to decide where you’re going to look. There’s always the option to meet someone at a library or through friends. But the most common places are a bar/club or on an online dating site. Both have their pros and cons. I’m going to go over those pros and cons so you can decide which option is best for you. But the ...

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When “Coming Out” Goes Horribly Wrong

Unfortunately, not everyone is okay with their child being gay. You may or may not have “come out” to your parents. Either way, I want to share with you a story that will anger you and probably make you laugh a little. My childhood friend, Ryan, came out to his parents about a year ago. I had been trying to convince him to do...

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Top 5 Reasons Why the Internet is the Best Place to Meet Gay Men

You’re hot (or not), horny, and ready to get laid (or at least meet someone to have coffee with). You’ve heard about this online dating phenomenon but aren’t sure if you should spend your money on it. I’m here to tell you that, without a doubt, online dating sites are the best...

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how do i convince my mom that being a tomboy and dressing up like a boy doesn’t necessarily means that I am lesbian?

-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  I would prolly make a big collage of all the women in hollywood and and music sports and what not who have short haircuts / wear pants / climb mountains / aren’t gayheads and give it to her.  Then I would make another collage of lesbians wearing dresses / lipstick / baking cupcakes…give it to her and...

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Two point five years ago we started this website. We looked like…

Two point five years ago we started this website. We looked like the above.  We also started a TWITTER. NOW WE LOOK TOTALLY DIFFERENT (kristin looks the same tho) AND WE’RE USING TWITTER TO ANSWER QUESTIONS IN THE NEXT WEBCAST. You heard (read) me right, folks, we are answering questions we receive on twitter in our next webcast. FOLLOW

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PERSONAL POST RADIO DAYYYY! Happy Saturday, gaybeans! Guess…

PERSONAL POST RADIO DAYYYY! Happy Saturday, gaybeans! Guess what?! Tomorrow morning at 7AM, Kristin & Dannielle will be on LiteFM (106.7FM) in the New York metro area!! We were interviewed by the lovely Nina DelRio for their ongoing series “Get Connected,” and we talk at...

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